Parents monitor your kids cell phone and computer useage

I have to say I have no sympathy for parents who let their kids access the internet and aren't aware of what the kids are saying to each other. AIM and other instant messaging is out of control. I had a 12yr girl tell me the other day that these messaging give kids confidence to say and do things they would not say or do in person to other friends. I think that is pathetic. I have had to confront a few parent about message sent to my computer to my kids and I will not stop making these stupid parents aware of what is going on when they are not paying attention to their kids. Come on People try giving a shit about your kids.